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What's in a fetish? As a guy with a Keds fetish, I can understand what guys feel about their fetishes. Fetishes invoke an irrational erotic response. But what about the other side -- women? Women, so the experts say, rarely experience fetishes. It seems to be an almost exclusively male...

Sometimes it is difficult to distinguish between cause and effect. Do men have a fetish for high heeled shoes because women wear them, or do (some) women wear them because men have a fetish for them? One wonders how long this secret of ours can be kept. Eventually it will leak out that some men...