Re: Wearing Keds in Public
For all the guys out there that are afraid to wear Keds in public , Listen up ! I am 35 5 ft 2 west indian and brown complexion , married for 16 years . I have been wearing keds for about 20 years beginning from Ny -Bronx , Then Nj ,to Fl I have never had an incident were anyone has made a big deal about it. I just put them on and forget about them thats it . when i first begane wearing them years ago I felt alittle shy but I remember when I was 21 I stayed the summer with my dad , it was in the south bronx in ny ,, the ghetto , and noticed that summer vans were in for the summer , all of the popular drug dealers wore them with plaid or plain shorts , I remember seeing them in orange , black , blue etc , it was when New balance 574 were popular. My wife and I wear them always , I wore an orange pair to the doctors office last week and got a comment from the assistant , she said those sneakers are cute in front of my wife . It all depends how you coordinate them with your clothing , try not to hide them it will defeat the purpose , also if you feel nervous just put them on and stand in front of people that will notices them .I had realized when i was living in the bronx that I did not want to follow society and do and wear what everyone was like baggy jeans , big shirts , boots , etc.
I like fitted clothing and my choice of shoes . who cares what you wear , no one pays your bills and wearing keds is just material it is not a sex change " do you and be confident in what you do and wear.
Put on a pair and go do something like wash your car or fix something you would not even remember you are wearing keds .I live in fl and have never seen a guy in keds yet in 3 years and this is the country part so go figure but I do not give a damn , what people think would not make you life any better . I wear slip on loafers and some ballet flats that do not look to fem as long as it coordinates with your clothing . sometimes you get the 16 year old guys and girls that wouls laugh like stupid asses with their girlfriends but , who cares " they still live with mommy and mommy buys their clothing , kids so what do they know about life . I wear my white ones all the time and my neighbors see but never comment because they know im married with kids ,, another tip is to collect a variety of sneakers like nikes , reeboks , vans , converse etc . so if someone sees you more than once their thoughts would be ,,, "Dam He has alot of sneakers "
wear more that one kind so people would know you like to dress and have plenty sneakers . In that way it is not seen as a fetish or a fen thing. as for wifes not going for it ,, psss thats is silly . go and buy a pair and tell your wife why the hell women can be comfortable and not men ? Mens shoes are doofy , big and too wild . if you have bigger feet it looks better than smaller feet , smaller feet looks fem bigger looks like a varsity style shoe for those casual men . i wear a 7.5 in women so imagine how that loks , but i coordinate it right. and if any man insults you tell him if he thinks that you are fem ? Ask him to bring his wife and show her how fem you are " get my drift .
enjoy your life , eat ,wear , see , do , and be who you want to be you . so just wear the shoe and be a man. Us men should have confort an cuteness in what we wear rather that being a big tuff guy . i do not need to show that . also if a woman ever made fun of me I would show her how much man i am , she might want to marry me after lol.
gaps " lol .Thanks all BUY KEDS AND WEAR THEM , COME OUT THE CLOSET.